When your girl is gaining weight, it can cause you to worry. Learn why this happens by understanding the most common reasons a girl gains weight.
As the mom of four kids (three of which are girls) who have moved through the teen growth spurt, I’ve had firsthand experience with growing teenage girls and weight gain.
In my past practice as a pediatric nutritionist, teen girls (and their parents) showed up with concerns about weight.
In this article, I highlight the most common reasons for girls gaining weight.
Often, parents are looking for a medical reason for weight gain, such as low thyroid (hypothyroidism), but in my experience, this is rarely the reason.
Even so, most pediatricians and other healthcare providers will want to rule out a medical basis for rapid weight gain.
More often than not, though, weight gain before and during puberty is related to a teen’s stage of development, lifestyle, and/or daily food and eating habits.
Normal Weight Gain versus Rapid Weight Gain
First, let’s clear something up.
Weight gain is supposed to happen in girls.
When a girl gains weight, it’s very likely to be a sign they are growing and developing.
In other words, it may be perfectly normal.
Until the weight gets distributed and situated, the whole situation can look and feel awkward.
If you look at the growth chart, you’ll notice a surge in the weight and height curves around the time of puberty and adolescence.
This reflects the normal uptick in weight gain and height growth.
However, some teens are gaining too much weight and too rapidly for their own good health.
According to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC), the teen obesity rate is currently about 21% amongst 12- to 19 -year olds.
Extra, unhealthy weight can lead to high blood pressure, high cholesterol, pre-diabetes, orthopedic problems, and more.
As a parent who may be worried about your girl, your first job is to do a reality check: Is this normal weight gain and growth, which you will see on the growth chart, or is this problematic?
Why is My Daughter Gaining Weight?
Let’s look at the possible reasons why your child may be gaining weight.
1. Growth Spurt Ages and Normal Growth
The female body morphs quite a bit during the pre-teen and teen years.
Did you know during growth spurts in boys more muscle is gained, while girls gain more fat?
Generally, girls get more curvy and boys get more muscular.
The timing of weight gain is something to note as well.
During the start of puberty, around age 10 to 12, girls begin to see a lot of body changes.
They start menstruating around 12 ½ years.
Boys begin the puberty process later, entering around age 12 to 13 years.
What Age Do Girls Stop Growing?
Most girls have completed the majority of their growth by age 14 or 15, but this depends on when they started menstruation.
Girls who are late bloomers will start their growth spurt later and finish later.
What Age Do Boys Stop Growing?
Boys begin their growth spurts about two years later than girls, so they can continue to grow into the late teens.
Generally, you can expect boys to stop growing around age 17 or 18, however, some later bloomers will continue to grow into early adulthood.
Weight gain is normal at peak growth times like puberty and should not be a cause for worry.
If your daughter is experiencing normal weight gain, be as supportive as possible by focusing on my 7 strategies to support a teenage growth spurt.
2. Kids and Teens Make Poor Food Choices
In my own experience as a mom of daughters, I’ve witnessed how food choices can get off track.
Especially in the teenage years.
If your teen is driving, that adds another challenge to the situation.
Teens who can drive often find themselves heading out the door to social events that involve food.
“I’m heading to meet my friends for coffee!”
“We’re meeting for ice cream.”
“I’m getting dinner with my friend…”
As a result, food choices may not be healthy.
- Sugary drinks such as soda or flavored coffee drinks that pack a lot of calories, fat and sugar (not to mention caffeine).
- Sweets and treats like candy and ice cream.
- Fatty foods such as pizza, French fries and chips.
Having too many unhealthy foods in the diet disrupts a healthy food balance.
This may contribute to extra, unhealthy weight gain.
Of course, some of these foods are perfectly fine in the diet, and can be quite enjoyable.
It’s all about the overall balance.
3. Girls Gaining Weight May Have Poor Eating Habits
Many of our eating habits are formed in the early years.
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As a result of increasing independence, I often see females change their eating habits.
They want more agency over their lives and this can include decision-making around eating.
- Skip breakfast
- Eat a light lunch
- Raid the pantry or refrigerator after school
- Eat late at night
- Diet to lose weight
If these tendencies become habitual eating patterns, they can lead to extra weight gain.
4. Girls May be Getting Less Physical Activity
Teen girls are generally getting less physical activity than they were twenty or thirty years ago.
I find it disheartening that schools nix regular physical activity around middle school.
It’s a time when our kids need it the most to help them balance their health, wellness and stress levels.
In high school, gym class is minimized to a few days a week and actual exercise may be less than that.
Recess, or a break to encourage physical movement? Nope.
While some girls play a regular sport and engage in training during the week, studies show that even athletes tend to sit around (quite a lot) when they’re not training, potentially minimizing some of the benefits of exercise.
Even if you have a daughter who is not inclined to move, she can be encouraged to be physically active.
Exercise helps boost metabolism (aka calorie burning) and build muscle, both factors in maintaining a healthy weight and optimal body functions.
5. Smart Phones and Computers May Contribute to Weight Gain in Girls
Did you know that 20% of US teens spend 5 or more hours a day on their screens (computer, smartphone, tablet, and video games)?
This is contributing to a more sedentary lifestyle.
One 2016 study found that teens who spent 5 or more hours using smartphones and computers were twice as likely to drink more sugary drinks and less likely to exercise.
6. Lack of Sleep May Encourage More Eating
Does your daughter stay up later and have a hard time getting up in the morning?
During the teen years, the circadian rhythm shifts.
This means all teenagers get tired later than they did when they were younger.
As a result, they go to bed later.
Yet, due to early school start times, they may need to rise early.
This shortens their total sleep time, which may affect their ability to regulate their appetite and eating.
A 2016 study showed that inadequate sleep, poor sleep quality and late bedtimes were associated with extra food intake, poor food choices, and unhealthy weight gain in adolescents.
All teens function at their best when they get at least 8-10 hours of sleep each night.
Obviously, getting enough sleep along with daily exercise and a healthy diet is the key to a healthy, growing daughter.
Sleep is not a waste of time!
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