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A Healthy Meal Plan for Kids Any Parent Can Make

A healthy meal plan for kids is important to the health of all children. Make a plan for the food groups you want to include at meals and snacks to help your child meet his nutritional needs.

Children who eat a healthy, balanced diet tend to be healthier. In this article, I’ll take you through my step-by-step approach to ensure you offer a child meal plan that will help your kid grow and be healthy.

Here, I’ll help you take a more effective approach in planning balanced meals and feeding your child. I will cover how to make healthy kid meals, why it matters, specific food groups to include as part of a balanced diet, as well as portion sizes for kids and timing of meals and snacks.

You’ll learn:

  • How to balance the major food groups
  • Effective timing of eating
  • Proper portions for children
  • Why a kids healthy meal plan matters

As a childhood nutrition expert, I see many parents get tripped up with meal time. They focus on one or two healthy foods in the meal, instead of an overall balanced diet.

Or, they worry more about what to take away from their child’s diet, rather than what to include in it.

Is this you?

A healthy meal plan for kids

What are Healthy Kid Meals?

You may be striving for a balanced, healthy meal plan, but if you don’t have the basics in mind, you may question yourself. Let’s get the concept of what healthy meals for kids mean.

A healthy meal plan for a child includes:

nutritious, wholesome food

a balance of all food groups

strategic timing of meals and snacks

helpful ways to incorporate sweets and treats

Together, a balanced diet and optimal meal timing creates a healthy meal plan for kids. 

Why Does Healthy Kid Food Matter?

There are several reasons why this is important for growing children.

First, offering a balanced diet of different foods ensures your child will receive the vast majority of his nutritional requirements for growth.

Secondly, the timing of meals and snacks help cover your childā€™s hunger and appetite so that she’s better able to regulate her eating.

In the end, healthy meal plans for kids helps them meet nutrient requirements while eating in a more intuitive and mindful manner.

That means eating for hunger rather than boredom, emotions, or other outside triggers.

[Listen: How to Raise a Mindful Eater ]

Food Groups in a Kids Meal Plan

Food groups are the categories of food that target important, specific nutrients. There are five main food groups, which I will describe below.

Fats are an additional food group, but many foods already have fat included, so I generally don’t ask you to work this in, unless I feel there isn’t enough in your child’s usual eating patterns. 

Fun Foods are a group I add to the mix so that you can explore the right balance of nutritious foods and indulgent foods.

90-10 Rule for sweets and treats

5 Food Categories in a Meal Plan for Kids:

The fruit group and vegetable group (for brevity, placed together) target potassium, vitamins A and C, and fiber, among other nutrients.

The protein group covers iron, zinc, vitamin B12 and more.

The dairy group covers calcium, vitamin D, and potassium.

The grains group offer other important nutrients such as B vitamins and fiber.

I could go on and on, but you get the picture.

A Strategy for Kids Healthy Meals

The more food groups you include in a meal, the better chance your child gets an optimal variety of nutrients. Here’s how to do this strategically:

Step One: Choose Protein Foods

I teach my families to set up healthy meal plans using the five basic food groups, starting with protein first.

Protein is important for growth in children and for appetite control, so I like to see it take a starring role on the meal plan.

The protein food can be beef, poultry, fish, eggs, beans, soy, or it can be something from the dairy group (also a good source of protein) like milk or yogurt.

Step Two: Pick Fruits & Veggies

Second, pick fruit and vegetables. Yes, I like to see fruit on the table at all major meals.

Fruit takes the pressure off of eating veggies if you have a hesitant eater.

It’s also a great source of nutrients, and if your child has a sweet tooth, is a good stand in for dessert.

Step Three: Round Out with Whole Grains

Lastly, fill in the meal plan with (whole) grains and dairy (if it hasnā€™t been added yet).

Include all the food groups for a balanced nutrition plan and a healthy diet for your child.

[Need Recipe Inspiration? I’ve got my favorites in Dinner Ideas for Athletes!]

A boy pouring a large bowl of sugary cereal.

What about Portion Sizes for Kids?

I believe that the table is where kids learn about portion sizes. I also believe that children should be allowed to eat to satisfy their appetite.

These two goals: learning about portions and eating to satisfaction (instead of fullness) can clash at the family table.

You never want portion sizes to become a restrictive way to feed your child

Thatā€™s why I like to use the concept of starter portions.

Instead of focusing on portion control, the sentiment of a “starter portion” allows kids to reflect on their hunger and appetite.

These are the age-appropriate portion sizes for your child.

They help your child understand a good place to start with how much food to eat, while also understanding that more food, if hungry, is okay to have.

Let me repeat: Your child should be allowed to eat an array of food groups at mealtime, in amounts that satisfy her appetite.

Starter portions are simply a place to begin with food amounts.

Starter portions teach a point of reference for kids. Think of them as a visual learning tool.

Without them, kids may not understand what a normal portion size looks like, or may over-serve (or be over-served) food portions.

As kids grow, the starter portions change to accommodate their bigger bodies and growth requirements.

I like to see kids experimenting with measuring cups and spoons and other simple tools to help them learn.

Who says your child canā€™t use a half-cup measure to serve up rice at the table?

A Balanced Meal Plan for Kids

What is the Best Eating Schedule for Meals?

The timing of meals is key, too. In fact, this can work for your child, or against him.

Get the timing right, and he will be satisfied after eating and less likely to ask for more food afterward.

If you get the timing wrong, your child may be hungry, asking for snacks, and potentially grazing with or without your permission.

I base my meal timing recommendations on basic physiology.

A childā€™s tummy is smaller. Because of the smaller size, children eat smaller volumes of food more frequently.

Meal Timing for Toddlers

For instance, a toddler has a very little tummy, so I recommend setting up meal timing every 2 to 3 hours.

Translated: a meal or snack should be scheduled every 2 to 3 hours throughout the day. This will help to meet nutritional needs while covering hunger and appetite.

Meal Timing for School-Age Kids & Teens

The school-age child should have a meal plan that reflects a 3 to 4 hour window between meals and snacks.

Teens do well with meal timing scheduled every 3 to 5 hours, depending on growth spurt, activities and overall daily life events.

I think meal timing is critical to helping your child regulate his eating. In other words, helping him eat the right amount of foods to satisfy his appetite.

I see kids go too long without eating and experience the sensation of being overly hungry. You know where that can lead.

Or, I see the child who is eating frequently throughout the day and getting too much food, and never really experiencing hunger and appetite.

Meal timing (and the supportive kitchen boundaries you need to back you up) can help tame these eating extremes.

Healthy Food for Kids: Putting It All Together

A healthy, balanced meal plan for your child will include a variety of food groups, starter portions, and optimal meal timing based on your childā€™s age.

This three prong approach will help you create a healthy framework, while teaching your child how to balance food and self-regulate his eating.

How do you create balanced meals for your family?

Need More Help with Your Kid’s Nutrition?

If you’ve got a sneaky suspicion you’re missing food groups or nutrients in your child’s diet, my e-book, The Essential Nutrients for Kids can help you sort this out.

In this guide, you’ll get my Top 7 Nutrients you need to watch for, along with nutrient sources of foods, substitutions if you need them, and guidelines on when to bring a multivitamin on board.

Additionally, chek out my parent education website, The Nourished Child, where I have workshops, classes and guidebooks to help you along the way to nourishing and nurturing your child to good health.

Want Some Kid-Friendly Healthy Dinner Ideas?

Check out my recipes – I’ve used them with my own family. I also have an e-book with Dinner Ideas for Young Athletes, but these can be applied to any family.

Are you building the healthy habits your child needs to thrive? Take my quiz and find out!

This post was updated from its original in June, 2023.

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